Read this. Its a good article. I really think I am of a same mind in regards to labeling people. That's why I don't like those surveys that ask you some questions and then "color" your personality or define what kind of personality "type" you are. According to them I am pigeonholed as an 'accommodator' but that's not important because I cannot be put into a bag or box.
I am many things and they are different at different times. And I am always changing and becoming something new, trying to become something better, though not always succeeding. Anyways my point is try not to label people and try not to get angry at people who label you as a "gamer" or some such nonsense since everyone likes to play games of some kind.
Best wishes to all game playing type persons. :)